1. It doesn't matter who you are surrounded by; you can always find success.
I have ran with many different people and have been coached/mentored by many different idols too. I have always found a way to be successful with the people I have been with. Whether it is with teammates that I only ran with four times (My 2012-13 indoor team) or the Relay of Misfit Runners. I have always found success with my teammates. I also have three different coaches for three different seasons. This makes me always have to adjust to different coaching styles. And it will be no different in college. However, I have always found a way to keep accolades pouring in like All-State, All-Conference, and All-Regional. It just takes motivation and continuation to do what you know how to do.
2. Always set goals and set them high but realistic.
If you get them or you fall short... ALWAYS SET GOALS. Whether its an academic goal, athletics goal, or even a social goal. Always have a goal(s) and keep them in the back of your head. I personally set many goals. I have a note in my phone that is about 25 lines long with my goals for XC, Indoor Track, and Outdoor Track. Some goals I get and others I miss.
3. Never underestimate anyone...
On many occasions I have been on the starting line and looked over and thought some other runner was part of the goon squad and he actually made it a close race with me! So, I have learned that everyone has potential of being good. Take no one for granted and treat everyone as a threat.
4. Always try to make someone elses life better around you.
My final year of cross country I had a little freshman that I mentored. He was some little, skinny kid that had a lot of talent and a lot heart. I never realized how little he had until I actually personally talked to him. After he made varsity at our team time trial I bought him his first Dairy Queen EVER! Yeah, I know right?! He was fourteen years old and had never taken a bite from a blizzard. I also bought him a pair of Nike Matumbo Spikes. His eyes lit up like Christmas lights when I gave them to him. I had never seen someone so happy about a pair of shoes... They might as well have been two bricks of gold. I also freshened him up on current music and trends that us teenagers should know. But, he didn't know them because his resources at home. Making this kids life outside of home better was probably the most satisfying thing I have ever experienced.
5. Be confident not cocky.
Be confident in your abilities but not too confident. I have caught myself on some occasions being too confident and having to step back a little. Being confident and cocky are two completely different things. If you are confident and know you can do something than just do it. Do not talk about it. For example: Be confident in your finishing kick abilities but don't gloat about it and be cocky about it at the starting line. Let your legs do the talking on the track or course.
6. School and religion come before sports.
XC Regionals 2013 was a very big deal to me. However, I did not let it get in the way of my other activities. Every Friday morning I wake up very early and go to a Bible study at Blue Heron before school called Campaigners. Even though I needed the sleep, Regional week was no different. I still went to campaigners and skipped out on the extra hour of sleep. I still believe that is why I found success at Regionals and made it to the State Championship. Because I stuck to my routine and beliefs. Also school work and grades come before running and film study. Even if you have a tough track workout the next morning you need to finish your school work before you "get your extra sleep."
7. Running/Sports creates and strengthens special bonds.
I probably would need more than all of my fingers and toes to count to the amount of friends I have met through running. Maybe even a calculator. So, lets begin... There is Trae Hill, Nate Fischer, and Charlend Howard who were my indoor teammates and post injury confidence boosters for the 2012-13 indoor season. There are state champions/superstars like Connor Mora, Clark Ruiz, and Nick Renberg who have mentored me and given me advice through the four years. There is people like Riley Norman, Trevor Holmes and Aaron Hodges who I have know since grade school but Track/XC strengthened the bond so we are like brothers now. Conference Rivalries have been started and crushed between myself and Kyle Dotterrer as we prepare to be teammates this coming 2013-14 indoor season. Finally two of my best friends, Matt Ritter and Josh Wojan who are also indoor teammates for this coming 2013-14 season. Us three also plan to potentially be college roommates if things workout because we get along and enjoy each other that much. Between laughing hysterically over text messages or running together and getting lost at the Crystal Lake Team Marathon warming up there is never a dull moment with us. Hanging out with two friends (John Alberts and Evan Lee) from my Relay of Misfit Runners are some of the greatest memories I have had and they continue to keep memories coming. Lastly, the one person that running has brought me is former Olympian, Paul McMullen. I don't know what I would do without Paul. He has showed me that running isn't all about competition. He once told me "If you are having fun and impacting others lives than you are being successful." However, he also makes sure I am staying competitive and chasing goals/records and like he says "kickin' ass and takin' names."
Friendships are not the only bonds running has strengthened for me. The family bonds have strengthened as well. Out of seven years my Grandpa has never missed a race. He has driven all over Michigan to just watch me race track or cross country. I can't imagine a meet without him there. Also my parents have picked me up when I was down more than anyone I know. They have been there when I truly needed. They also praise me and keep my confidence up after a good race so I can keep the momentum rolling to the next race. My Mom has pretty much been my sports agent for when a college wants to contact me through text, call, or mail. To get to me, I guess you have to go through her first I guess... My Dad has given me tips to help improve my racing. Sometimes they help, sometimes they are awful. Thanks Dad. :) Lastly, my sister, Tori. She secretly looks up to me. She doesn't really like admitting it. Her looking up to me and attempting to follow in my footsteps makes me want to do better so she has more to look up to.
These seven experiences has really made me grow as an individual. Now I am passing these seven life lessons to you, the reader. You may have never realized how much running truly means and impacts a runners life until you actually think about it...
On many occasions I have been on the starting line and looked over and thought some other runner was part of the goon squad and he actually made it a close race with me! So, I have learned that everyone has potential of being good. Take no one for granted and treat everyone as a threat.
4. Always try to make someone elses life better around you.
My final year of cross country I had a little freshman that I mentored. He was some little, skinny kid that had a lot of talent and a lot heart. I never realized how little he had until I actually personally talked to him. After he made varsity at our team time trial I bought him his first Dairy Queen EVER! Yeah, I know right?! He was fourteen years old and had never taken a bite from a blizzard. I also bought him a pair of Nike Matumbo Spikes. His eyes lit up like Christmas lights when I gave them to him. I had never seen someone so happy about a pair of shoes... They might as well have been two bricks of gold. I also freshened him up on current music and trends that us teenagers should know. But, he didn't know them because his resources at home. Making this kids life outside of home better was probably the most satisfying thing I have ever experienced.
5. Be confident not cocky.
Be confident in your abilities but not too confident. I have caught myself on some occasions being too confident and having to step back a little. Being confident and cocky are two completely different things. If you are confident and know you can do something than just do it. Do not talk about it. For example: Be confident in your finishing kick abilities but don't gloat about it and be cocky about it at the starting line. Let your legs do the talking on the track or course.
6. School and religion come before sports.
XC Regionals 2013 was a very big deal to me. However, I did not let it get in the way of my other activities. Every Friday morning I wake up very early and go to a Bible study at Blue Heron before school called Campaigners. Even though I needed the sleep, Regional week was no different. I still went to campaigners and skipped out on the extra hour of sleep. I still believe that is why I found success at Regionals and made it to the State Championship. Because I stuck to my routine and beliefs. Also school work and grades come before running and film study. Even if you have a tough track workout the next morning you need to finish your school work before you "get your extra sleep."
7. Running/Sports creates and strengthens special bonds.
I probably would need more than all of my fingers and toes to count to the amount of friends I have met through running. Maybe even a calculator. So, lets begin... There is Trae Hill, Nate Fischer, and Charlend Howard who were my indoor teammates and post injury confidence boosters for the 2012-13 indoor season. There are state champions/superstars like Connor Mora, Clark Ruiz, and Nick Renberg who have mentored me and given me advice through the four years. There is people like Riley Norman, Trevor Holmes and Aaron Hodges who I have know since grade school but Track/XC strengthened the bond so we are like brothers now. Conference Rivalries have been started and crushed between myself and Kyle Dotterrer as we prepare to be teammates this coming 2013-14 indoor season. Finally two of my best friends, Matt Ritter and Josh Wojan who are also indoor teammates for this coming 2013-14 season. Us three also plan to potentially be college roommates if things workout because we get along and enjoy each other that much. Between laughing hysterically over text messages or running together and getting lost at the Crystal Lake Team Marathon warming up there is never a dull moment with us. Hanging out with two friends (John Alberts and Evan Lee) from my Relay of Misfit Runners are some of the greatest memories I have had and they continue to keep memories coming. Lastly, the one person that running has brought me is former Olympian, Paul McMullen. I don't know what I would do without Paul. He has showed me that running isn't all about competition. He once told me "If you are having fun and impacting others lives than you are being successful." However, he also makes sure I am staying competitive and chasing goals/records and like he says "kickin' ass and takin' names."
Friendships are not the only bonds running has strengthened for me. The family bonds have strengthened as well. Out of seven years my Grandpa has never missed a race. He has driven all over Michigan to just watch me race track or cross country. I can't imagine a meet without him there. Also my parents have picked me up when I was down more than anyone I know. They have been there when I truly needed. They also praise me and keep my confidence up after a good race so I can keep the momentum rolling to the next race. My Mom has pretty much been my sports agent for when a college wants to contact me through text, call, or mail. To get to me, I guess you have to go through her first I guess... My Dad has given me tips to help improve my racing. Sometimes they help, sometimes they are awful. Thanks Dad. :) Lastly, my sister, Tori. She secretly looks up to me. She doesn't really like admitting it. Her looking up to me and attempting to follow in my footsteps makes me want to do better so she has more to look up to.
These seven experiences has really made me grow as an individual. Now I am passing these seven life lessons to you, the reader. You may have never realized how much running truly means and impacts a runners life until you actually think about it...